When Chaos Feels Like Home: How Nervous-System Regulation Unlocks Growth

In this episode of EQ Unlocked, the host shares firsthand experiences working inside Ohio's Department of Youth Services to show how chronic chaos trains nervous systems to distrust safety. Through stories from Indian River and reflections on staff and youth dynamics, the episode explains why peace can feel threatening and why regulation must come before behavior change.

Listeners learn about the regulation-first approach (the roots of NALS and ORS), how a stabilized nervous system creates awareness and choice, and why traditional behavioral fixes often fail without physiological safety. The host also offers personal anecdotes about building trust, leading calmly in volatile environments, and practical takeaways for applying nervous-system regulation to relationships, workplaces, and personal growth.